| Dorcas Muia in her kitchen garden |
Wednesday, October 22, 2025
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Saturday, October 18, 2025
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Wednesday, October 1, 2025
Time to abide
The first three weeks after I returned to Kenya kept us
on our toes. Three weeks of in-country orientation for our young adults was about as intense for them as for us, with activities of
some type every day. It has been a relief to take work and life at a more sustainable pace since mid-September. We had mundane things to catch
up on in the office (turning in the monthly financial report, shepherding new
project proposals through the next stage of development, meeting with each
staff member for a check-in on their work). We have also taken some time out to
bring back a bit more work-life balance in the past weeks, so I’ll focus on
those things.
Mt. Longonot crater rim
Paul had been saying for a couple of weeks that he really
needed an outlet for all the pent-up stress of driving in Nairobi, and kept
mentioning a deep urge to climb Mt. Longonot. I decided I'd better join in, and so
we found a day when we could take the adventure together. We actually climbed
to the rim of this dormant crater at one point last September, together with David
– I found it incredibly difficult then, probably because I was coming down with COVID or something. Or maybe the pace set by our then-15-year-old was impossible for me to keep up with. I was a bit apprehensive about trying it
again, but I still wanted to test my endurance.
Trail to the crater rim
This time, we planned better, getting out of the house
before 7 am, armed with 2 L of Ceralyte (oral rehydration solution) and another
2 L of water each. We were very pleased with the ease of registering at the
gate and the nice low fee for residents to enter the park. We started walking
at 9 am and decided to really take the first hike to the rim slow. It
is a very steep ascent – in some places, so steep and eroded that they needed
to put in concrete stairs to help people actually make it up without sliding. Those stairs remind me of a famous quote: "My old enemy.... Stairs!" (Po, Kung-Fu Panda)
Once you get to the crater rim, the view is absolutely breathtaking. Even in the dry season, with a very dusty trail, the crater itself is remarkably green and vibrant, and you can see all around the edge, rising up to the peak about 1/3 of the way around counterclockwise.
| Trail to the top |
We decided to get the climbing over with first, and so we hiked that way, getting more and more intimidated by the steep-looking trail ahead of us. It was pretty extreme towards the end, but never actually dangerous or exposed to a cliff. That was quite a relief to me, because I have a pretty bad fear of heights, and we were literally walking on the rim of a crater with extreme drop-offs on either side. But the trail always felt wide enough, and most of the time, vegetation lined the trail, making it impossible to slip and fall.
| Looking back at the summit |
| easy trail and sailing clouds |
“Thou rushing winds that art so strong,
ye clouds that sail in heaven along,
O praise him, Hallelujah!”
We did finally take a bit of a break to enjoy the view before
making our descent. I must admit, I was really moving slowly at this point in
the hike. It’s not easy to do a steep descent either – those stairs were definitely
our best friends getting down the elevation. We eventually got back to our car after 7 hours total and made the slow drive back up the escarpment to home.
| stop-motion set |
We had left David at home that day because he had actually just started a huge chemistry project. His teacher invited all students to investigate a particular chemical process involved in climate change and explain it using some kind of creative media. He gave them lots of options: short-story, drawings, and comic strip. But David was the first student who ever volunteered to try a stop-motion video. He loves working with clay and sculpting things so it seemed like an excellent media to experience. Paul helped him find a phone app to make the filming easier, and then he spent most of that day designing his set, creating his characters and then doing the opening sequence. We kept getting text messages from him – do we have an easel? Where can I find a picture frame? Any more cardboard?
He sorted himself out in the end. He's figured out ways to make the filming less time-consuming, and continues to work on this project. But I'm sure he's spent at least 30 hours already.
We also had a great time preparing and leading worship music
that weekend, together with three other Kenyans. I’m so grateful that our family can
participate in music together, and it was a very fun set of music on the theme
of joining God in his mission to steward and honor creation (hence the hymns in
my head).
Back in May, I had been asked to lead the
teaching at our church women’s retreat at the end of September. I decided at
that point to focus on John 15, a passage that talks expressively
about discipleship as abiding in Christ. I’d been thinking about it all summer and decided to preach on it back in Baltimore when invited. But the one preparation
I hadn’t been able to do much of in August and September was the most important:
actually spending some time abiding! I was able to take one comp day each week
(for weekend days worked) to really rest. Only when I stopped did I realize how
tired I was. I took 3 naps in one day on that first comp day! I enjoyed some
good time reading in my hammock and just tried to spend some time not
accomplishing much. I had a similar day the following week, with a solid nap in
the middle and some good time entering into imaginative prayer. I realize that
in our culture, it is an absolute fight to take time to simply abide and enjoy Sabbath.
Which is why I’m mentioning it here. And even feeling some unholy shame about
publicly saying that I took time off, recognizing that it is a privilege to be able to enjoy a
day of rest. I think that's all wrong, but it's hard not to feel like dedication to productivity at all moments is the highest good. One image of abiding
| Tigoni tea fields |
As a result of all that resting, I actually felt extremely
peaceful by the time the women’s retreat day came. In fact, I haven’t felt such a profound absence of anxiety for a long time. Paul very kindly offered to drive
me up to Brackenhurst in the morning last Friday and we had time to take a walk
together through the tea fields, remembering our early experiences with the Renew Conference. Then he drove home, and I was able to check in to a
room early and get yet one more 2-hour afternoon nap while it bucketed rain
outside.
I was so happy to be in that environment again, with all the flowers and sunbirds, and then to begin connecting with ladies from our church. I don’t know that many people very well, so it was such a good opportunity to go beyond the surface. In the end we had 50 women attend, with about half coming the night before. We had really good dinner conversations around a table and then a very effective ice breaker session that helped me know at least 10 women quite a lot better. It was too cold and rainy for a bonfire, but we were able to gather at an indoor stone fireplace and even make s’mores there.
| Morning teaching session |
In the morning, I got up early to enjoy the quiet of dawn
and then I was ready to help the worship team with guitar accompaniment. The
morning sessions went well and I appreciated how responsive people were to the
teaching. We had time for group discussion and then an hour of individual
reflection: yet another period to head back into the forest and enjoy the quiet
and the wildflowers. I also led a more experiential session in the afternoon,
trying to help people learn about imaginative prayer and stepping into a Gospel.
I sometimes feel that it’s a stretch for people to use their imaginations so
actively in seeking to meet with Jesus. But then I remember that the Jesuits
have been growing in holiness this way for more than 500 years and I feel much
more secure in the discipline.
All ended well for the retreat, and I was able to get a
ride back home with another woman who arrived about when we did and enjoyed quite a good, deep conversation
during that drive. I was grateful for that too. While I was away, Paul had
gotten David organized and dropped him off for his 5-day service and learning
school trip, so we had a little taste of the empty nest for a few days.
| Men's worship band |
Over the past few weeks, we have also been able to
reconnect with several different family friends from different seasons of life.
We met up with Aaron and Frieda Jell from our Ethiopia bible study group as
they passed through town, enjoying a nice Thai dinner with them. The next
weekend, we got together with LeCrecia and her two youngest kids, who were good
buddies of David from school and the youth group in Addis – their family actually
was the one who very kindly drove David to school almost every day, so they
learned to endure his banter along the way. And then the next day, Lena and
Patrick, friends from our time in Arusha, came to visit our church and share
lunch with us afterwards. They were in town for the normal Kenya errands, and it
was so nice to see them after a couple of years. One thing for sure: everyone
ends up in Nairobi sooner or later, so it’s a great place to live in order to meet
up with all your old friends!
Bonus photos:
LVC women's retreat Elvis, an MCC IVEPer, visited us at church Brackenhurst wildflower waterfall in the tea fields
| David's first woodworking project |
| An evening with the Jells |