Sunday, January 26, 2025

Return to Turtle Bay

Sunrise at Turtle Bay
I think is the first unscheduled Saturday I have had since we arrived in Kenya. It a good day to reflect back on a socially-packed month. Actually everyone (except Rebecca) is currently gone for a while. Fletcher, our nephew, left first a couple weeks ago to return to Rhodes College in Memphis, Oren left the following week to return to William and Mary, and David just left early this morning for a school activities week trip in the Mt. Kenya region. So Rebecca and I are actually alone today, a much needed respite from the constant activities of December and January. 


David and Fletcher at the beach
Backtracking to where the last entry ended, we had just finished our Christmas and New Years programs, Fletcher our nephew had arrived for a visit, and we had planned a trip to the coast (Watamu) for a week as a highlight of our holiday break. We booked reservations at Turtle Bay Beach Resort, a place that can really bring a slew of memories over most of our lives in East Africa: we have stayed at TBBC 5 times now. I traced the first visit back to 2009 when Oren was about 4 years old with Rebecca's parents (Here is the link to that blog) and we had another week there with my in-laws Paul and Gwendolyn and their kids in 2013. At least two occasions were MCC Rep. regional meetings, but the rest were vacations. True, Rebecca and I are biased toward some places in Zanzibar, but this is an economical alternative since we live here in Kenya now. 

We flew from Nairobi to Malindi, a town close to Watamu and took a short drive to the resort. Turtle Bay is an ecology-conscious, beautiful resort with a number of pools, and many spaces to sit, either by the beach, pool, or in various gardens filled with flowers and birds around the property. The air smells pleasantly of the frangipani growing everywhere, along with coconut palms, bougainvillea, flame trees, and jacaranda. All meals and beverages are part of the package, so it is a great place to relax and not have to worry about chores, or work responsibilities. 

Since we had 5 days there, we planned at least one activity for each day (besides just lying around). There are a number of things to do there: various water sports (windsurfing, kiteboarding), ocean fishing, stand-up paddle boarding and kayaking, sunset cruises, and a number of attractions like snake museums and historic sites in town. We planned 4 different ones the time we were there. 

Oren snorkeling
Snorkeling is one of our favorite things to do, and we booked a boat to take us out to the coral reef in the national park just off the coast from where we are staying. Rebecca and I had some trepidation about this because the past two times we had gone snorkeling, we had noticed a marked decrease in the number of fish and live coral, and we were worried that it had become worse from climate change. In addition Fletcher did not have snorkeling experience and was a bit unsure about how well he would do. 

Our Fish ID book is no help: What is this?
I took Fletcher for a couple lessons in the pool, and the next afternoon we all went out. We were thrilled to find the weather and tide were perfect for very clear water and perfect light. Lo and behold, the fish were back! It occurred to us that the last times we had come were in the month of October, when the water was warm and the seagrass was overrunning the beach; the lack of fish was probably seasonal. We saw some of our favorite things like lion fish, butterfly and angel fish. I took my GoPro camera and was able to make some nice underwater videos. Some stills are here. We all had a great time, even Fletcher had no problem as the water was quite calm and snorkeling was really easy that day. He just motored around with a lifejacket and couldn't believe how cool and easy it was. No jellyfish stings was also a bonus, right Paul Sack?! 

Rebecca in the water
We also noticed that the season had also washed away all the dead seaweed that sometimes gathers on the beach at Turtle Bay. The beaches were really clean and we could even snorkel right off the beach to some reefs right off the hotel. Rebecca and I saw a number of black tipped reef sharks right near the shore. (They are small--about a meter in length). Walking on the beach was really nice despite the occasional hawker trying to sell us something. 

Paul on Mida Creek
The following day we planned a stand up paddleboard excursion up a large 'creek' (more of a river) that feeds into the ocean. There are extensive mangrove forests and channels to explore. The kids greeted the excursion with mixed feelings. I admit, I love to stand up paddleboard, and I am very interested in seeing mangrove restoration, so it was a trip that sounded cool to me. Everyone did participate though except David who actually got sick with something the night before. It ended up being quite magical overall. As the sun set we explored the shore from our paddle boards (since there was little surf in the creek, it was not too hard to stay up.) We paddled into a number of small channels and eventually came to a small island where we watched the sunset. We then paddled back to the place we put in the water. I am happy to say, we were all able to stand up and paddle before the end of the trip. I don't the kids would be quick to do it again, but I really liked it. 

Releasing a common bulbul
after ringing 
The next day, Rebecca took advantage of an opportunity a friend from the Renew conference let us know about. She works at a Christian conservation research center called A Rocha Kenya. Every Thursday morning, they do Bird-ringing, open to the community and any guests who want to learn.  Here is her account of the day, which began at around 7am. (a bit early for the teens and I who did not go.)

When I asked if we could visit her work at A Rocha, my friend Anna said, "Yes, come round for the bird-ringing on Thursday morning!" I jumped in a tuk-tuk to travel another 2 km down the coast and joined a gathering of 10 others who were participating that morning. The A Rocha staff set up a series of nets along pathways through the compound, placed so as to catch a variety of bird species. The birds are trapped as they fly through and then gently released. We then carried the birds back to the office veranda in soft bags to learn more about the individuals we had caught. Qualified staff and volunteers actually were the ones putting rings on the legs of birds and assessing their maturity, taking various measures of weight and length. The rest of us watched and learned.  I know something about birds after almost 30 years of being interested in them, but I was stunned by how much more technical knowledge you need to really understand each species and the signs of their individual qualities. I now class myself as an enthusiast! 

Pygmy kingfisher

Some of the birds we studied that morning were 2 grey backed cameroptera (a tiny little wren-like bird I had never noticed before), a back-bellied starling, a white-browed coucal, two bearded scrub robins, a black-and-white mannikin, a sombre greenbul, a northern brownbul, and an emerald spotted wood-dove. The most astonishing find was a pygmy king-fisher. It is supposed to have migrated to Madagascar by now, but there it was. It was a gorgeous and tiny bird. One of the local volunteers, a teenage friend of the son of the Center director, had a first experience of putting on the tiniest of rings on the bird's leg, under director Colin's watchful eye.






Measuring the coucal

They are collecting data to better understand the distribution and population size of various birds in East Africa. The best bird data is from North America (eBird, etc), but data in Africa is really lacking. Besides ringing birds at their Center on the coast, they also go out and do bird atlassing in the region nearby, to add to a continental database.  They hope to track trends among various bird populations. 

A Rocha has a guesthouse with simple, affordable rooms and I have heard that they are willing to have guests be involved in their conservation activities. I hope that some other time we could stay there and maybe we can jump in the boat in the morning and help count reef sharks or other marine activities, too. 



In other activities, we participated in a big game of water polo one afternoon, built sand castles, swam and played frisbee in the ocean, and had a really great time together. 

lion fish
On our last day there Rebecca took one more snorkel excursion right off the beach and saw some more really cool fish including a barracuda. (We would see those quite a bit in Djibouti, but not in Kenya). When we checked out we all went over to the snake park museum which was very cool. It is a research center for indigenous snakes, and also produces antivenom for use when there is a need. Our guide showed us the many venomous snakes in Kenya, including cobras and mambas, boomslangs, puff adders and various vipers. They did a demonstration on how snakes are captured and handled in their facility. David even helped out by catching an agama (large lizard) that had gotten loose in the one of the snake demonstration enclosures (no snake was loose there at that moment!). 

Snake handling demonstration

After the visit, we stopped at a nice Swahili restaurant to have some really good fish curry before heading to the airport in the evening for the flight back to Nairobi. It was really great to be able to share this experience with Fletcher. 


We returned on a Friday night, and Fletcher was leaving on Sunday. We planned for one more tourist activity, which was a trip through Nairobi game park. It has been quite a number of years since I have been there even though it is now very close to us. I went when my parents lived here in the 1980s. (We were waiting for when we had resident rates, but we are still waiting for that). We wanted to be sure Fletcher had a safari experience as well before departing. We hired a vehicle and driver for the day and left after lunch. It was a good day to drive around and we went right up to sunset and saw many animals. I was surprised by how the rhinos are flourishing in that park, but I think it is for their protection, as the park is well-guarded. There were numerous black and white rhino that we encountered on our trip. Another highlight was a large crocodile sitting on the shore of a waterhole. The only thing we did not see on this trip were big cats, but we did not want for any interesting things to see. 

Giraffe at Nairobi national park
The next day we went to church and got Fletcher ready for departure. We dropped him at the airport which was a madhouse of returning tourists and students. Fortunately we could help him navigate to his entrance door, as it is not entirely clear where one enters depending on the carrier. He returned home without incident. 

The following week, Rebecca and I were back in the office, but did our best to be home in time to do some things with Oren in his final 5 days. He was returning the following Friday. Fortunately there are some nice things to do, like take walks in the nearby Karura forest. Sophomore year has been tough with some very hard courses he took the previous semester. Getting him mentally, emotionally, and spiritually prepared to return for a new start was our objective. 

black rhinos
Oren did stop by our office and greet our staff, we played bocci ball at home (that I got for Christmas) and on his last night we went out to Fugo Gaucho, a Brazilian restaurant where you are served about 15 kinds of meat (that are brought around by waiters, having been freshly seared); crocodile is the most exotic. Oren loves to try different kinds of meats so it was perfect last supper. 

We took Oren to the airport on Friday which was much less crowded. We received photos of him arriving in Dulles 24 hours later, and back with cousins in Baltimore, one of whom who had just returned from Chile over their Christmas break as well. Oren is back at school as I write. 

Oren visiting office staff
The weeks of work that followed vacation were fairly frantic as one could expect. There were many things left on various burners to get back to. I am covering for our health coordinator who is on maternity leave so there was a lot of work to do there. We had multiple visitors as well. One notable one was Gulma, from MCC Ethiopia who happened to be in town. It is always good to get news about the MCC Ethiopia team since the departure there stills feels very fresh. 

Rebecca and I ended last week finally getting a chance to debrief with a counselor about the transition. It has taken 6 months to even have the time to do so. It was a much needed session, as we look to how to move forward in the new year and plan to be here for a long term assignment. We have returned to our usual rhythms of church, choir, small group etc. We hope these rhythms will sustain us in the weeks and years ahead.

David was off this morning for his activities week which gives us a couple days with no kids in a house. Quite a change from the past month. Will update again in early February. 

Oren paddle boarding

weavers at Turtle Bay

Swahili restaurant

Fletcher on the beach at low tide

grey-backed cameroptera,
maturity assessed by primary feather qualities




Bocce ball

Fletcher on safari



David catching agama

measuring pygmy kingfisher



Dinner at Turtle Bay


Mangroves


Oren back in Baltimore

snorkeling boat



Mangrove channel


Catapila Island


Turtle Bay pools

Fletcher on SUP


Mangroves

David before waterpolo


Monday, January 6, 2025

A densely packed Christmas season

 

2024 Gingerbread skyscraper
We have passed through another Christmas season, crossed into the New Year, and are now ready to finally take a week of holiday. But before we get on the plane to Malindi, it’s time to do some reflecting on the past weeks.

The big event of the third week of December was Oren’s arrival to Kenya. Fortunately, his exams finished early, and he was able to fly out by December 15th. It was very exciting to pick him up at the airport and bring him back to our new home in a new city.

We were still working that week, so we left Oren to catch up on sleep most of those mornings. But we enjoyed a few events with him after work hours, when David got home from school. On our first evening, we went to the local mall and played a round of glow in the dark mini golf. It’s a pretty funny place, but it was nice to play together and then enjoy a good Thai dinner. 

Mini golf
We started on some cookie baking that week as well during times we were at home. On Wednesday, we all went to David’s school for the final project of his Intro to Theater class. The class had worked together for about a month, preparing a 30-minute drama all themselves. The 12 of them took roles in the play: almost everyone had 2 roles, as an actor and as one of the support roles (set, props, make up, stage hands, etc.) Only the person on tech (sound and lights) didn’t have to divide their attention. It turned out to be a very funny, surrealistic performance of “Places in Five!”  We’ve continued to be grateful for how David has found opportunities to grow in his capacity beyond academics. It was also great that we could show Oren his school a little bit.

Rosslyn Final Chapel / Christmas Project
David had exams the last week of school, so he was able to come home early. He gave some time to working on another clay sculpture, this time of a medieval warrior. We had a nice evening sharing dinner and playing games with one of our service workers before he left for his Christmas vacation. On the last day of school, I ran over to see the final assembly. The school had chosen several local charities to support, and kids had been raising money all month in numerous creative ways, from bake sales to “Pay to play” volleyball tournaments, PJ days, etc. It was a very festive occasion of student-led worship and then a big reveal of the amount of funds raised – about $18,000!

Carolling party

In the evening, we joined our small group for a missionary gathering at a neighboring compound. We hadn’t met most of the families but recognized some of them – we are still working on building community, and it seems like most of these parents have been heavily involved in the PTA, something we haven’t had time to do yet. It was a lovely afternoon to get to know a few more folks, and then sing Christmas carols together.


Sugar cookie making

In between the fun stuff, we were trying to pull together several big work projects – budgeting for the next fiscal year, fixing up our National staff policy manual, finishing some work on proposals, preparing a new lease for our service worker Charles to move to a new flat and getting it signed. And there was also prep work for the big Renew conference after Christmas. It didn’t all get done, but we were working during the cracks of time in between. On the weekend before Christmas David, Paul and I helped lead the worship team, so there was a certain amount of private prep time for that also. We had a small group get together at the movies on Sunday afternoon – the adrenaline seekers viewed Gladiator 2, while those in a more mellow mood went to Mufasa – we’d not been to a theater in Nairobi, but it was remarkably nice, even with recliner seats!

Cinnamon roll making

On Christmas Eve, we stopped all the work, and took time for our big family tradition bake project: cinnamon rolls. It takes all of us to mix the dough, knead it several times, and then roll out the trays of pastry. Paul was also working hard on preparing his annual Gingerbread house; this year, Oren challenged him to make the tallest possible structure, which ended up looking more like the empire state building. It was pretty fun to see it come together, and it was too tall to even fit on the kitchen counter!

All Saints cathedral before it filled up

Our own church did not have any services for Christmas Eve or Christmas Day, so we decided to join our small group families for a Lessons and Carols service at the big Anglican All Saints Cathedral in downtown Nairobi. We arrived early, and that was prudent because the service ended up being completely packed, mostly with local congregants. It was such an impressive structure inside, very old-school British, and so was the service, starting out with a treble soloist singing “Once in Royal David’s City,” just like at Cambridge Cathedral. The choir sang a remarkable number of special choral numbers, in between congregational carols and the traditional 9 scripture readings. It felt both very sacred and very communal to be there together with so many Kenyans welcoming Christmas. Afterwards, we went home and enjoyed appetizers for dinner and our annual screening of “the Polar Express,” before going to bed.



David let us sleep in past 7 am this year ðŸ˜‰ – and then we started getting up to open stockings and gifts. Our extended family was extremely generous, sending all kinds of fun Lego, puzzles, games and some new clothes for the men. There was even a very advanced meat thermometer from my brother, which helped us cook to perfection our Christmas ham for lunch! Paul got David a set of tools for clay sculpture, which was a hit. We enjoyed some quiet time working on Lego, decorating the gingerbread house, and then playing a cool game Oren brought for the family, Everdell. It was a very lovely and quiet Christmas with our family, and we were all glad for the down time.

On Boxing Day, Paul and I took a good long swim at the school pool and then decided it was high time to pick up a little charcoal grill, to help us in our hosting activities at home. We welcomed two of the “Burundi families” who have now moved to Nairobi for new jobs. I was so glad for Oren to have a chance to reconnect with the Carlson’s kids, Miles and Neo. 

Burundi families gathering in our back yard

The kids played a lot of cross net and spike ball, while the adults had so much to share about the stress and learning curve of moving to a new city. School situations for our kids are a big, shared concern, but it seems like everyone has landed well at this point. Paul was able to grill a bunch of sausages, and the afternoon was so beautiful and pleasant, just to enjoy good company. At the end of the evening, our guests helped us demolish and consume the gingerbread house, a good way to share around all that sugar!



Gingerbread tower decorating
Friday was my big day to complete our monthly financial report and then get everything ready for the Renew conference the next day.  It seemed like I had to pack just about half the house into our cars on Saturday, between musical instruments, supplies for the kids’ ministry teams, a visual focus for the conference room, sporting goods, games, and our own suitcases. It was quite a whirlwind that day, getting to the conference venue early to help register everyone and get all the spaces set up.

Renew Conference is something we stumbled into through our good friends based in Tanzania, the Taylors. They have been involved for many years – it’s a gathering for Christian workers in East Africa and was designed to meet the need for Christian fellowship and solid Bible teaching, along with time for rest and reflection – especially among Christians in secular work, or not with a mission agency. We really enjoyed it in 2019 and came back in 2022 after COVID. At that point, we had moved to Ethiopia, but it seemed great to join the committee and commit to the New Years’ conference as a way to stay connected with old friends from Tanzania and even Burundi, along with new friends we’d met along with way.

Mosley and Taylor boys reunited

For the 2024 conference, a number of long-serving committee members really needed a rest from the work of coordination, but unfortunately, there weren’t that many people able to join to fill out the numbers. In addition, it turned out that we had a lot of extra work this year to find an alternate venue – another mission booked the entire venue (which Renew had used for 30 years) for 3 years in advance, and so there wasn’t enough space for us. In the middle of the year, we moved to Kenya, and suddenly there was a lot of work that needed to be done by someone, and no one else was really available, so a lot of the general organization landed on my plate. It’s also become very difficult to find volunteers ready to serve the Renew Conference – in the past, groups from the UK or Australia or other places would come and run a VBS style kids camp – but people don’t have the openness and money for that now. So we ended up having to interview local Kenyan youth workers and then hiring two couples. I was a bit exhausted by it all even before the conference started.

Youth Trivia Night

Anyway, there were many lovely moments of togetherness. Our new venue worked out pretty well overall, with some excellent playing fields and nice service. We had a big group all-ages huge game of Capture the flag, which was hysterical, pitting 5-year-olds against 18- and 62-year-olds. There was a great informal game of Ultimate frisbee with the Taylors and a few others – my body didn’t recover for several days, but it was great fun. Our ice breaker games leader did a marvelous job of creative games we could all enjoy, that even included sculpturing national monuments with foil and straws. We had a good folk dance one evening, and then the youth planned a great trivia night contest another night. The afternoons were relatively relaxed with time to nap and play games.

Youth present to the adult session

The meat of the Renew conference was served up by Andy Harker, a Christian disciple-maker, who used to work in Kenya but has moved back to the UK. He really understood our context and our community well and gave some very deep and rich bible teaching from the book of Zephaniah in the mornings. In the evenings, we reflected on Psalm 23 from several different perspectives. I was grateful for Katie Taylor and her family, who coordinated basically all the music this year, because I was too busy to be available. Her kids and mine joined in some way almost every session.


New Years Eve Dinner
We ended the year with a packed day: a football match in the late afternoon, leading to an open-air dinner of nyama choma (barbeque), and then 7 pm New Years in Perth celebration, with sparklers for the little kids. We had an evening session of biblical reflection, an annual general meeting where we elected new committee members, and then the annual DIY (Talent) Show, of acts brought by our attendees. David, Paul and I sang a sea shanty, a few other kids and adults shared some interesting acts, and then Joe Medley got everyone involved in a large group drama based around the 10 Talents. We ended the evening with a final reflective service, leading to a bonfire to welcome the new year.

David's Great Chocolate: DIY show

New Years’ Day was a blur because we were all pretty tired! But we closed the Conference, said our farewells, and then most people headed off for home. I was able to finally leave the venue around 4:30, having settled the final bill. And I was super tired at that point! We mostly just needed some quiet introverted time to chilled out at home that evening.

 On January 2, we welcomed our nephew, Fletcher! He traveled solo over to Kenya from Nashville and did very well keeping things together. It was super exciting to see him, but he was pretty tired that afternoon. We also had invited the Taylors over for games and dinner, and so it was another great occasion to use the cross net and the little grill for hosting. Except for Katie, they hadn’t yet been to our new place, and so we were thrilled to show them around. We even got to play a round of The Name Game with them, something we used to do each Christmas.


The Renew Conference team of 2024


The golf team
On Friday, we had a quiet morning and let the young men sleep in. Midday, we headed out to a local golf course – Paul, Mike, Sam and David all were keen to play 18 holes that day. The rest of us watched them for a bit, and then headed over to Brackenhurst, our old Renew Conference venue. We really wanted to see it again and enjoy the lovely green ambiance. Unfortunately, we found out that it was completely, 100% closed to the public by the other mission group that had hired it. So sad! We still found a place to park the car and go for a walk in the tea fields, but it was disappointing for everyone not to be based at Brackenhurst. And then we tried to think of a Plan B for dinner, but everywhere was closed! 

Young men walking in the tea field: 
Fletcher, Oren and Harry

It seemed all restaurants had done their work over the Christmas week, and then staff went on holiday. So, we settled for hanging out back at the Limuru country club for games and snacks and some spike ball. It was busy, but we finally found a quiet corner table in the garden. (Amazing, the next morning, we got news that there was a fire at the Club House, and it burned down to the foundations, right after we had spent hours there the previous day.). When the golfers were back, we returned closer to town for dinner at a funny South African American-inspired chain restaurant in a mall. It wasn’t Brackenhurst, but it was still a good time to visit with our friends. And it seemed like Fletcher was able to get along pretty well with these new people he was meeting. Oren was really glad to connect with his good friend Harry for those days of the conference and afterwards – both have now left home and are in different stages of life.

LVC Prison Ministry visit
We had a busy Saturday as well. Our first activity was more culturally challenging. Paul is part of a prison ministry through our church, and they join the prison church every first Saturday of the month. So he took me, Oren and Fletcher along with him this past weekend. It’s a relatively short visit, just 90 minutes, having time with the inmates during their normal worship service. The men on the inside do a great job of leading the praise and worship and sharing scripture. Paul gave a homily based around Joel 2, the Lord restoring the years eaten by the locusts. He shared the story of a man he knew in prison ministry, who experienced a complete transformation of his life when he met Jesus in prison. It resonated well with the inmates. In the afternoon, we met up with the Taylors once more and then shared dinner with our next-door neighbors. 

Fletcher and a giraffe

On Sunday, we took time after church to visit the giraffe center. It was fun to feed them up close and feel their long grey snaky tongues. Fletcher is curious about everything he is seeing, and I’m so grateful for his positive attitude and willingness to experience and learn.

And now we are at the beach, set for a week of relaxation and water sports! And looking back on the past month, I would say that there has just been too much. We need to consider how to narrow down and focus in on what is most important. Personally, I also feel that I still haven't fully processed the emotional cost of making the move from Addis to Nairobi. It will be good to have this in-between time. to stare at the ocean, or breath deep while snorkeling, and to just be, and rest and consider how to make 2025 a year where we are fully present where we are. 




Bonus photos:

Our family Christmas photo

Oren getting on the plane with papa Dave

New Years' Bonfire

glow in the dark mini golf

brothers hanging out

serious baking

Rosslyn student worship

Neighbor carolling

David sculpting

a very muddy walk in Karura with Oren

David's sculpted warrior

cinnamon roll dough

rolling them out

All Saints carol service with friends behind us


Christmas gifts

meat thermometer



Gaming

building gingerbread tower stage 1

destroying gingerbread tower

Mt. Kilimanjaro

Games at Renew

Capture the flag

Team Kalahari Ferari on trivia night

Jos giving a testimony of God's provision

Fletcher arrived!

Crossnet with Taylors in our back yard

Parents relaxing

Roasting marshmallows on our grill

Junior golfers

Tea field walk

Spike ball


Playing games at spur























Destroying the gingerbread house with friends





















Christmas Eve appetizers for dinner